Archive for the ‘Trust’ Category

Pink Tour – What does this mean?

Today a friend challenged me to illustrate a particular point about leading and the power and passion involved in moving forward. This forward motion can be about my life but often in this moment it is really about my moving my life forward in conjunction with other aspects and elements of my community and those that are around me. I so very often do not see or experience myself as a leader when I very much am leading. Often I have no idea that i am mentoring and modelling a particular group and way of being when it sees to come naturally.

I can no longer wait for someone else to lead the way because I am already on my way. Join me on the BIG PINK TOUR BUS

The illustrative point of this analogy of the BIG PINK TOUR BUS is that the whole thing is kind of like ME driving the bus. I am no longer a passenger, I am the driver. I work for my own tour company so the tours are really my choice. Being a savvy operator I always check with those around me to see what they would like. I am actually the leader and the one moving the whole operation ahead, setting the course and direction, creating the tone.

Funny thing is I very often don’t know exactly where the bus is going but I do know that I want the trip to be fun, uplifting an unpredictable and joyful experience.

The JOURNEY is really important, the DESTINATION not so much. Dancing on the Ecstatic path… rather than forging my way through and having the path be a particular way before setting out.

My BIG PINK bus!

ZOOM-ZOOM

Driving my BIG PINK bus… Destination unknown – Ecstatic Juicy Heart Surprise! Surprise! The bus is totally diverse. The whole tour company a sexy surprise! Tour Operator Uniform — TEE HEE
 

SURPRISE! SURPRISE!
The Tour BUS is full of Diversity!
Always a package full of delight and surprise!
 
 

TOUR BUS OPERATORS UNIFORM - TEE HEE

A New Workshop being offered here in Toronto
Dancing on the Ecstatic Path for Men
Bridging the energy of Earth and Sky with the Energy of the Heart
A two-day exploration of Erotic Energy
Techniques will involve Touch, Breath and Movement
 
Toronto – Ontario – Canada
February 4th and 5th 2012
 
For more information contact me at phillip@phillipcoupal.ca

Taking action

Taking action helps. Taking action STOPS the freight train of procrastination. Taking action lets me feel and know that I am doing what I need to do. Taking action keeps me in the track.

Today I will continue to take action and grow the life I so desire.

Call to ACTION ~ Wildwood Summer 2009

 

A new workshop being offered here in Toronto
Dancing on the Ecstatic Path for Men
Bridging the energy of Earth and Sky with the Energy of the Heart
A two-day exploration of Erotic Energy
Techniques will involve Touch, Breath and Movement
 
Toronto – Ontario – Canada
February 4th and 5th 2012
 
For more information contact me at phillip@phillipcoupal.ca

“When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy.”
– Rumi

 I feel at my best when the river is moving in me…

A River of Joy

Seeking a vibration that is in sync with the world around me.

I notice today that I am vibrating at a really high frequency. This high frequency is about play and action and motion and dancing. I seem to be out of sync with a world that is dark and gloomy, rainy and foggy. I am breathing to sync the two. I know that if I breath and become more aware of the world around me the sync will actually happen.

Today I will breath deeply and align with the reality of the world around me.

Vibration ~~~~~~~~

Choice today is a Powerful Place to be!

I am on my way home after a weekend of service. I had the honour to serve for a workshop called Power Surrender and Intimacy. I had a joy filled time. I was surprised to find that I could change my beliefs, change my outlook and change my experience. It was very simple, all I needed to do was dive into the place in myself where I could make a choice. Sometimes it was very simple and sometimes it was immensely complex. The simplicity of choosing to choose became more and more clear as the weekend went by.

Today I will be in the absolute fluidity of being able and willing to CHOOSE!

Choice Point - October 24 2011

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Practicing being FLUID

Today I will practice and experiment with being fluid. I am working to be more spontaneous, more flexible, more easy-going.

The focus is on being more…. more me first! More acknowledging and authentic with my desire,my curiosity and my sense of fun. The knowledge that springs from this is to be less attached.Less attached to any outcome, judgement or rigidity.

Becoming fluid and flowing… ❤ Love the Juicy Heart

Fluid and BEing the Cock of the WALK - London October 2011

 

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Bliss

Today I will explore how to prolong my state of Bliss. How to extend that which I opened up yesterday. Today I will extend the sensual pleasure into realms without touch. My pleasure will be in my vision, my awareness, what I let into my body. Today I will open and reopen the places in my being that opened yesterday. The state of bliss, seems to me, to be connected to the cracking open of my heart, the radiance of my passion, the removal of the encrustations of shame. When I am shameless and feeling everything I can be in a sustained feeling of Bliss and therefore Joyful.

Today I will dance on the ecstatic path with bliss ~ and a smile. ❤

Blissfully naive, playing in the water - Florence 2007

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Kindness and Truth.

Expressing Kindness and Truth can be a path to unconditional positive regard. Being able to hold oneself with kindness and tell oneself the truth  in a kind way, can lead to holding oneself with a view of unconditional positive regard. Being compassionate with oneself can work as a model to be more able to be compassionate with others.

LOVE ~ the JUICY Heart ❤

Today I will do my best to hold myself kindly and to tell myself the truth in a kind way.

A path to Unconditional Positive Regard ~ Venice 2009

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Imaging and preparing today.

There is much new on the horizon. Today I will prepare for the newness of the new and the unknown quality of what has not been experienced before. I will play on both sides. Eager in the joy and exuberance of the unknown.

I will revel in surprise.

Playing on both sides ~ Venice 2011

Preparing for Power Surrender and Intimacy at Easton Mountain October 21, 22 and 23 Easton Mountain, New York

Power Surrender and Intimacy ~ BDSM with the Body Electric School Discovering the Play in Bondage and Discipline.

Set Yourself FREE!

Only you have to power to set yourself free. Give yourself the control to be in the driving seat.

I feel so much better when I let myself be exactly who and how I am even with the influence of external forces. I feel so much better when I know I am free. I feel so much better when I know I am determining my future. I feel so much better when I contribute to myself. I feel so much better when I let myself shine.

Set Yourself FREE!

Today I will be FREE!

FREEDOM ~ Venice

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