Archive for May, 2013

Men 4 Men Touch Exchange

Next June 8 2013

Men 4 Men – Sensual Touch and Tantric Exploration
Afternoon Erotic Experience for Men
Sensory and Sensual Body Experience 
Guided from a Tantric Perspective

Event Information here:  Men 4 Men Touch Exchange – Toronto

Men learn to give and receive erotic and sensual touch in a healthy, safe,supportive,  uplifting and honouring environment

  • Explore your erotic, sexual and sensual self,
  • Explore in an environment  that supports, encourages and assists emotional and erotic journeys that promote holistic healing,
  • Explore within a group of heartfelt and courageous men, feel less isolated and create more connections within a supportive community
  • Explore the connection between erotic expression and a sense of well-being and wholeness

This event welcomes all men no matter their sexual identity or orientation. Men of all levels of experience and knowledge are welcome, together we are able to learn from and with each other.

This event welcomes all who can open themselves to a sense of adventure and exploration in the realm of their body, on a physical level as well as on an erotic and sexual level.

If you would like further information please make certain to contact Phillip Coupal at phillip@phillipcoupal.ca

If you would like complete information or to register for the event please visit Men 4 Men Touch Exchange – Toronto

 

Sensual Touch and Tantric Exploration Saturday June 8 Toronto at the Awaken Studio

Sensual Touch and Tantric Exploration Saturday June 8 Toronto at the Awaken Studio

Sensual Touch and Tantric Exploration Saturday June 8 Toronto at the Awaken Studio

Sensual Touch and Tantric Exploration Saturday June 8 Toronto at the Awaken Studio

“Pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick, and pull yourself together.” ~ Elizabeth Taylor

Today I was looking for some information about the emotional roller coaster that I seem to be on.

Looking around for some reading and realizing that there are several contributing factors to the great waves of emotion that I have been feeling in recent days. These feelings seem to be especially centered around home and the nurturing and creative feelings that I have in my home. Realizing that there is an imbalance in my home life versus work life that creates an out of balance signal. The brilliant realization in this desperate reading effort has been that, smiling helps.

Spending more than an hour reading and searching on the internet. I finally found something that was not so dry… Read through it, everything is there and the zinger is in the last sentence!

It is more helpful if we learn and apply these emotional intelligence skills:

  • Skill 1: The ability to quickly reduce stress.
  • Skill 2: The ability to recognize and manage your emotions.
  • Skill 3: The ability to connect with others using nonverbal communication.
  • Skill 4: The ability to use humour and play to deal with challenges.
  • Skill 5: The ability to resolve conflicts positively and with confidence.

 

I’m a firm believer in the powers of Yoga, having a good work/home/life balance and using humour to deal with some of life’s more difficult moments. I must admit I also like the advice that Elizabeth Taylor once gave:  “Pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick, and pull yourself together.”

All of these elements are great and I got the most out of the last sentence and quote… “Pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick, and pull yourself together.” This made me smile again and even the simple act of clipping it and re-pasting it into this entry made me smile again and brought yet another shift…

So today, and just for today, perhaps tomorrow… and likely only internally, I will follow the sage advice of the lovely Diva, Elizabeth Taylor. When I make the effort and when I smile, I will know that the time and effort that it takes to smile can spaciously allow me time to manage, getting all those cognitive functions back in order and begin to get myself in place.

Everything can be going to hell in a hand-basket and I can fall into the safety of knowing that I have complete and utter control over my ability to smile, take a breath and get to knowing that everything will take care of itself.

Pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick, and pull yourself together

Pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick, and pull yourself together

Kama Sutra Journey – Discovering the Treasure of your Erotic Life

Summer Day Camp for Men in Toronto

Next offered 

July 5 to 12, 2014

Visit the Website and register before March 1st, 2014 and take advantage of a great discount.

July 14 -21 2013

Awaken to your Erotic Potential

Discover the Deepest Pleasure and Treasure of your Body 

WEBSITE

Create Your Own Kama Sutra 

awaken the pleasures and treasures of your erotic life

Kama Sutra Journey for Men Toronto Information - www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra-Journey-forMen-Information

Kama Sutra Journey for Men Toronto Information – http://www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra-Journey-forMen-Information

Kama Sutra Journey for Men Toronto Information - www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra-Journey-forMen-Information

Kama Sutra Journey for Men Toronto Information – http://www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra-Journey-forMen-Information

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Spend a Glorious
Week in Toronto

Occupy a temple setting to explore and share new erotic discoveries. Bring the pleasure of understanding to your personal sexual treasures. Create reassurance and awakening around newly found information about yourself and your relationship to your erotic and sexual life. Explore new territory. Exercise, nourish and strengthen your internal wisdom to drop away layers of shame, guilt and sexual anxiety. 


In oneself lies the whole world and
if you know how to look and learn,
the door is there and the key is
in your hand.

Nobody on earth can give you
either the key or the door
to open, except yourself.

~ Jiddu Krishnamurti

 

This voyage of discovery is taking place in  Downtown Toronto at the Awaken Studio, 

Next offered July 5 to 12 2014

 

An experiential, educational, erotic exploration, this intensive workshop will take place in a day-camp style setting. 

The atmosphere will be inclusive and uplifting, welcoming of diversity. 

As a group we will gather and explore. 

We will play through three sessions per day, sharing many meals and breaks. 

There will be plenty of time for: relaxation, rest, integration & synthesis.


The event is limited to 10 participants. An interview either in-person or by telephone is required prior to registration. Please make certain to contact Phillip prior to registration.

Experience Your
Erotic Potential 


Discover the Deepest
Pleasure of Your Body

Create Your Own Kama Sutra

Summer Intensive
Experiential Embodied
Erotic Exploration

Next offered

July 5 to 12
Awaken Studio ~ Toronto
http://www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra 

This Experiential Embodied Erotic Exploration will begin with a gathering and welcoming ritual on the first evening and will close with an honouring and parting ritual in the afternoon of the last day.

Over the 6 days of this journey of personal exploration and discovery there will be 18 sessions to begin personal growth and open the field for new discoveries in relation to erotic spirit, self image and pleasurable, healthy erotic and sexual well-being.

The atmosphere and tone for the event is: respectful, playful, honouring and inclusive. As a group we will assemble and create a safe and uplifting space for each men to explore, discover and create new patterns and pleasures in their erotic life.

The fee for this event is $500.00 for early registration and $750.00 for regular registration.

An interview and introduction as well as some discussion of intention with Phillip, is required prior to registration for this event.

 

Beauty, Truth, Freedom,
and above all Love

 


Kama Sutra Journey for Men Toronto Information - www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra-Journey-forMen-Information

Kama Sutra Journey for Men Toronto Information – http://www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra-Journey-forMen-Information

 

Registration

Come and BE Intimate

Create an erotic treasure map for yourself, dive deep into a safe harbor within your being

Explore your edges and beyond, thrill to undiscovered delight as you extend into unknown territories

Discover new treasure in your erotic life, as you breathe deeply with your gems of internal wisdom

Unlock, with new found keys the secrets of your beautiful, sensual and erotic feeling body

Unearth and dive into the essential treasure of your sex, pleasure, health and well-being

Experience new information allowing knowledge to create personal growth, knowledge and power

Bring forth: fantasy and the alchemy of desire as you create and manifest bliss, ecstasy and peace

Reward yourself with immeasurable sensuality and feel the ease of dancing on an ecstatic path

Share generously with others your discoveries, rewards and pleasure in a shameless journey

Treasure the Bounty of 
Spirit Within
 

For more Information 

Please Contact Phillip at: phillip@phillipcoupal.ca


Please be aware that this event might challenge old beliefs, create shift in your ability to be intimate, loving, playful and shameless with other men. Finally you might find within yourself new skills and knowledge to be a vibrant, connected and erotically energetic man in a peaceful world.

 

Conscious Expression of Erotic  and Life Force Energy


Programs and Events for Men who LOVE Men

Kama Sutra Journey for Men Toronto Information - www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra-Journey-forMen-Information

Kama Sutra Journey for Men Toronto Information – http://www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra-Journey-forMen-Information

Kama Sutra Journey for Men Toronto Information - www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra-Journey-forMen-Information

Kama Sutra Journey for Men Toronto Information – http://www.phillipcoupal.ca/Kama-Sutra-Journey-forMen-Information

Men 4 Men – Sensual Touch and Tantric Exploration

Afternoon Erotic Experience for Men

  • Gather together with a group of adventurous erotic explorers.
  • Open yourself to the pleasures and sensual qualities of your body.
  • Welcome yourself into a full-bodied erotic experience guided from a Tantric perspective.
  • Charge and nourish yourself with the energy of your desire.
  • Create a sense of knowledge and power based in the feelings of your body.
  • Mutual and consensual touch, in an uplifting and honouring environment.
  • Enjoy the simple pleasure of pleasure.
  • Give and Receive in a heartfelt expression of touch.

Details

  • Saturday June 8, 2013
  • 1:00pm to 6:00 pm – Awaken Studio
  • 270 Carlaw Avenue Toronto
  • Limited to 16 participants
  • Fee $45.00
  • Interview and Registration required
  • Information contact Phillip at: phillip@phillipcoupal.ca
  • http://www.phillipcoupal.ca

 

 

Awaken Your Sensual Self - Awaken Studio Experiential Embodied Erotic Exploration www.phillipcoupal.ca

Awaken Your Sensual Self – Awaken Studio
Experiential Embodied Erotic Exploration
http://www.phillipcoupal.ca

 

As I approach the final anniversary in May, I am again reminded of the power that emanates from within.

Last night at dinner, with a wonderful group of men, I was asked about how things in my life, were going. Yes there was the usual surface gratitude. And then, when I checked for a moment, inside, I was overcome with a greater sense of deeper gratitude and power, an internal and much more earthy gratitude. I was aware of a deep and rich sense of gratitude and power that radiated directly from my source.

This reminder brought up a great well of very lovely, juicy and fertile energy. My greater sense reminding me that this richness resides within me and flows from my source. The source of life, the within. This within, the place where I am nothing but myself: a beautiful and meaningful, radiant, blissful being.

I am filled with gratitude and pleasure as I realize that the past year has exercised, strengthened and enlarged this great pool of within and the personal strength that comes from my, within. My life source has been enriched by the experience of being made irrelevant and being cast aside.

The within in me, is the source of all of my life and my energy.  A year ago I would have never thought or even imagined that I might have within me the power to move ahead and become more myself than I have ever been.I am so very grateful to have been able to access and utilize and pump out from this well, this source, that accesses the within. The power within me to overcome those that would have me be powerless and without strength or individuality.

Today when I am utilizing this life force, when I am accessing and actively flowing from the source, I am letting myself come out to play and create and bring meaning to my world. I am full of relevance and fortitude and I even have power. I am anything but “IRRELEVANT” I am powerful and full of meaning.

A note to those that might feel bullied, coerced, forced to be something that they are not, shamed and dominated, made to feel powerless. Your LIFE source, the power within you, to be you, is within and is full of the brilliant radiance that is you. When you can let this source energy flow and be in the brilliance of exactly who, you are, you will have full and resolute power.

To those that have been bullied, please never take on the words, coercion, ridicule, shame or domination of those bullies. Please reach inside and bring out your brilliance, especially in the face of those who wish to wield power in a brutal and careless manner. The world can only be a better place if each and every human being, could live from the BRILLIANT RADIANCE that comes from source and resides in each of us, in the within.

LOVE ~ Phillip

Living LIFE as a RADIANT BABY ~ Accessing the Bliss Body www.phillipcoupal.ca

Living LIFE as a RADIANT BABY accessing the Bliss Body www.phillipcoupal.ca

Living LIFE as a RADIANT BABY accessing the Bliss Body
http://www.phillipcoupal.ca

 

Please Master – Allen Ginsberg

Please master can I touch your cheek
please master can I kneel at your feet
please master can I loosen your blue pants
please master can I gaze at your golden haired belly
please master can I gently take down your shorts
please master can I have your thighs bare to my eyes
please master can I take off your clothes below your chair
please master can I kiss your ankles and soul
please master can I touch lips to your muscle hairless thigh
please master can I lay my ear pressed to your stomach
please master can I wrap my arms around your white ass
please master can I lick your groin curled with soft blond fur
please master can I touch my tongue to your rosy asshole
please master may I pass my face to your balls,
please master, please look into my eyes,
please master order me down on the floor,
please master tell me to lick your thick shaft
please master put your rough hands on my bald hairy skull
please master press my mouth to your prick-heart
please master press my face into your belly, pull me slowly strong thumbed
till your dumb hardness fills my throat to the base
till I swallow and taste your delicate flesh-hot prick barrel veined Please
Master push my shoulders away and stare into my eye, & make me bend over the table
please master grab my thighs and lift my ass to your waist
please master your rough hand’s stroke on my neck your palm down my backside
please master push me up, my feet on chairs, till my hole feels the breath of your spit and your thumb stroke
please master make me say Please Master Fuck me now Please
Master grease my balls and hairmouth with sweet vaselines
please master stroke your shaft with white creams
please master touch your cock head to my wrinkled self-hole
please master push it in gently, your elbows enwrapped around my breast
your arms passing down to my belly, my penis you touch w/ your little fingers
please master shove it in me a little, a little, a little,
please master sink your droor thing down my behind
& please master make me wiggle my rear to eat up the prick trunk
till my asshalfs cuddle your thighs, my back bent over
till I’m alone sticking out your sword stuck throbbing in me
please master pull out and slowly roll into the bottom
please master lunge it again, and withdraw to the tip
please please master fuck me again with your self, please fuck me Please
Master drive it down till it hurts me the softness the
Softness please master make love to my ass, give body to center & fuck me for good like a girl,
tenderly clasp me please master I take me to thee,
& drive in my belly your selfsame sweet heat-rood
your fingered in solitude Denver or Brooklyn or fucked in a maiden in Paris carlots
please master drive me thy vehicle, body of love drops, sweat fuck
body of tenderness, Give me your dog fuck faster
please master make me go moan on the table
Go moan O please master do fuck me like that
in your rhythm thrill-plunge and pull-back bounce & push down
till I loosen my asshole a dog on the table yelping with terror delight to be loved
Please master call me a dog, an ass beast, a wet asshole
& fuck me more violent, my eyes hid with your palms round my skull
& plunge down in a brutal hard lash thru soft drip-fish
& throb thru five seconds to spurt out your semen heat
over & over, bamming it in while I cry out your name I do love you
please Master.

A Musing on Master ~ Today the 22nd of May

Musing May 22 2013 www.phillipcoupal.ca

Musing May 22 2013
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Musing May 22 2013 www.phillipcoupal.ca

Musing May 22 2013
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Musing May 22 2013 www.phillipcoupal.ca

Musing May 22 2013
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Musing May 22 2013 www.phillipcoupal.ca

Musing May 22 2013
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Men 4 Men Intimate Touch and Massage Exchange

Come OUT and explore – Celebrate your Erotic Emancipation!

Next group event May 20th, 2013 Check the website Touch Exchange Information and Registration

Men learn to give and receive erotic and sensual touch in a healthy, safe,supportive,  uplifting and honouring environment

  • Explore your erotic, sexual and sensual self,
  • Explore in an environment  that supports, encourages and assists emotional and erotic journeys that promote holistic healing,
  • Explore within a group of heartfelt and courageous men, feel less isolated and create more connections within a supportive community
  • Explore the connection between erotic expression and a sense of well-being and wholeness

This event welcomes all men no matter their sexual identity or orientation. Men of all levels of experience and knowledge are welcome, together we are able to learn from and with each other.

This event welcomes all who can open themselves to a sense of adventure and exploration in the realm of their body, on a physical level as well as on an erotic and sexual level.

If you would like further information please make certain to contact Phillip Coupal at phillip@phillipcoupal.ca

If you would like complete information or to register for the event please visit Men 4 Men Touch Exchange – Toronto

Intimate Erotic Touch Exchange for Men - Toronto

Intimate Erotic Touch Exchange for Men – Toronto

Always seeking and seeking always…

A little news

I have to say that I never thought that I would find myself running off to do another workshop!

I am very excited to say that I am running off to do another workshop! A great way of CELEBRATING my BODY of EMANCIPATION!

This time in the workshop is taking place in the foothills of the coastal mountains just outside of Vancouver. A place called Loon Lake, not the Loon Lake that is 1/2 way between Cache Creek and Clinton, but the Loon Lake that is near Maple Ridge. The workshop fits perfectly into my schedule on November 8 to 15. I think I will stay the weekend in Vancouver and perhaps fly up to Williams Lake to visit my family. 😉

Funny enough one of the things that sticks in my mind, and totally opens my heart to the work, is that this event is billed as a way to explore boundaries around intimacy and actually uses the word SEX in it’s title! YUM!

I am very excited that this event is in CANADA and is being run in a way that make sense financially. The inclusive nature is welcoming of all participants. The event is open to anyone and the fee is $650.00 for a week including food and accommodation (NOT in a tent!).  Also! This was of particular interest to me.

The workshop will be, in large part, driven by the participants. It will follow the long Faerie Circle tradition with each member having equal rights and responsibilities of participation. The facilitators will provide guidelines and a road-map to “sacred space” and a foundation of emotional and spiritual support for the workshop. 

Here is a little clip about the event. From the website: http://www.faeriesexmagick.org/index.html

Sex Magick: Exploring the Boundaries of Intimacy

About the Workshop

Consider these questions . . .

  • How can I extend the limits of intimacy with my Faerie/Billy brothers?
  • Does sex constrain or expand my relationships with men?
  • How can I integrate sexual play into my intimate relationships?
  • Does recreational sex diminish my capacity for intimacy in a committed relationship?
  • How does the prevailing society’s prudishness dampen and undermine the intimacy in my relationships?
  • How does my sexuality and my spirituality inter-relate?
  • Are my sexual and my spiritual aspects one in the same?

If any of these issues resonate with you, join us for a concentrated exploration and testing of the waters of deeper intimacy, Sex Magick, and spirit/sex integration. Based on the successful and provocative workshops developed by Harry Hay, this 7-day retreat is designed to challenge and take down the fences keeping us from achieving levels of intimacy not previously found.


We face many barriers in working to realize our vision. AIDS, sexual addiction, objectification, ageism, looks-ism, internalized heterosexism, unrealistic expectations. These issues look large as we begin this crucial next step in manifesting our collective faerie vision – the ritual realization of subject-Subject consciousness that is the basis of Radical Faerie reality. We achieve our vision by collectively creating – as the core our Workshop, (and for the duration only) – a Ritual Space within which safe and sacred precinct we freely empower ourselves, and each other, to set aside our boundaries in order to experience the same total loving sharing with another as we do in loving ourselves.

– Harry Hay, from the original Sex Magick Call

Dance, when you’re broken open.
Dance, if you’ve torn the bandage off.
Dance in the middle of the fighting.
Dance in your blood.
Dance when you’re perfectly free.
~ Rumi

In your light I learn how to love.
In your beauty, how to make poems.
You dance inside my chest where
no-one sees you, but sometimes I do,
and that sight becomes this art.
~ Rumi

Forget safety.
Live where you fear to live.
Destroy your reputation.
Be notorious.
~ Rumi

When you do things from your soul,
you feel a river moving in you, a joy.
~ Rumi

Phillip Coupal - Counselling + Coaching + Bodywork www.phillipcoupal.ca

Phillip Coupal – Counselling + Coaching + Bodywork
http://www.phillipcoupal.ca
Professional Counselling – Serving Communities of Gay Men and Male Couples

 

Next event May 12th 1:00 to 6:00 at the Awaken Studio

Men 4 Men Touch Exchange

Men learn to give and receive erotic and sensual touch in a healthy, safe,supportive,  uplifting and honouring environment

  • Explore your erotic, sexual and sensual self,
  • Explore in an environment  that supports, encourages and assists emotional and erotic journeys that promote holistic healing,
  • Explore within a group of heartfelt and courageous men, feel less isolated and create more connections within a supportive community
  • Explore the connection between erotic expression and a sense of well-being and wholeness

This event welcomes all men no matter their sexual identity or orientation. Men of all levels of experience and knowledge are welcome, together we are able to learn from and with each other.

This event welcomes all who can open themselves to a sense of adventure and exploration in the realm of their body, on a physical level as well as on an erotic and sexual level.

If you would like further information please make certain to contact Phillip Coupal at phillip@phillipcoupal.ca

If you would like complete information or to register for the event please visit Men 4 Men Touch Exchange – Toronto

Visit the website at http://www.phillipcoupal.ca

Intimate Erotic Touch Exchange for Men - Toronto

Intimate Erotic Touch Exchange for Men – Toronto

Awaken Studio www.phillipcoupal.ca Conscious Expression of Erotic and Life Force Energies Events and Programs for Men who LOVE Men and Men who have SEX with Men

Awaken Studio
http://www.phillipcoupal.ca
Conscious Expression of Erotic and Life Force Energies
Events and Programs for Men who LOVE Men and Men who have SEX with Men