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Sometime I can become obsessed with a project…

Today when I mentioned this to my husband… I said something like … “I feel bad because I have become obsessed with this latest project” He in turn surprised me and replied. That my obsessions were some of my best attributes and sometimes the result of the obsessive work was some of my most brilliant creation.

I was surprised. I had always thought that those projects that could consume my entire energy were not my best moments… Sometimes I just have no clue of what those around me are truly thinking. I am glad my husband shared his experience. I am glad because I had a little insight into myself that I often do not see.

LOVE – PEACE – JOY

Sometimes things are not as they appear... Strega Rome 2010

 

Moving AHEAD!

Knowing GOD… Playing in the Divine… Being a bright and shining BOY…

Moving Ahead... Toronto 2011

Coming soon more new for the Downtown Swim Club

 

The Journey

One day you finally knew
what you had to do, and began,
though the voices around you
kept shouting
their bad advice–
though the whole house
began to tremble
and you felt the old tug
at your ankles.
“Mend my life!”
each voice cried.
But you didn’t stop.
You knew what you had to do,
though the wind pried
with its stiff fingers
at the very foundations,
though their melancholy
was terrible.
It was already late
enough, and a wild night,
and the road full of fallen
branches and stones.
But little by little,
as you left their voices behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do–
determined to save
the only life you could save.
~Mary Oliver~
 
Travelling today…
 

The Journey ~ Diamond Head - Hawaii - May2011

More about movement on the Journey of Life www.phillipcoupal.ca

 

Pretty much everything is not as it seems. There are always layers and layers under and over and in and out.

Today I will look through the reflection and see what is under the surface. Today I will look further inside and outside to see what is.

Perhaps it is nothing… – ♥ –

Perhaps it is everything… – ♥ –

Not as IT SEEMS – Indiana June 2009

For more about what is … www.phillipcoupal.ca

 See the current listings for all Experiential Embodied Erotic Explorations 

Expanding Erotic Awareness and creating Education thru Experimentation in Eroticism and Sex.

Each month I facilitate a Touch Exchange for men. This is a small group and limited to 8 to 10 participants.

In addition to the monthly Touch Exchange I facilitate several workshops per year that focus on different topics which can include Breath Work, Conscious Self Pleasure, the principles and practice of Taoist Erotic Massage. I call the experiential learning sessions Exquisite Connections.

Every other week there are evenig sessions. This series is called Erotic Education

New for 2012 is a 2 day weekend series titled:

Dancing on the Ecstatic Path sessions that take place in an informal setting. Client oriented these sessions explore awareness of the body and are designed to foster learning about touch, eroticism and sexuality.

There are also a series of full day events designed to explore Conscious Kink

As the Toronto Coordinator for the BES I am responsible for the production and presentation of up to 5 weekend workshops per year.

Please see below for details, dates and information

Calendar of Events 2012

Men Touching Men Erotic Exploration Events in Toronto

Events 2012

January 2012

Wednesday January 4thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday January 14th – Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday January 15th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday January 18thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday January 21stConscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30

February 2012

Wednesday February 1stAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Weekend Event with William McMeniman

Dancing on the Ecstatic Path

Saturday February 4th and Sunday February 5th

9:00 am thru 6:00 pm both days

Wednesday February 15thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Sunday February 19th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Monday February 20th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Saturday February 18thConscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30

Wednesday February 29thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

March 2012

Saturday March 10th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30Sunday

Wednesday March 14thAdult Education6:30 to 9:30

Sunday March 18th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday March 28thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

April 2012

Wednesday April 11thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday April 14th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday April 15th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday April 25thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday April 28thConscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30

Sunday April 29th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

May 2012

Wednesday May 9thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

Wednesday May 16thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Wednesday May 23rdAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Sunday May26th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday May 27th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

June 2012

Wednesday June 6thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

Sunday June 17th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday June 20thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday June 23rdConscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30

July 2012

Wednesday July 4thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

Wednesday July 18thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Sunday July 22nd – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

August 2012

Wednesday August 8thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday August 18th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday August 19th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday August 23rdAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

September 2012

Weekend Event

Dancing on the Ecstatic Path

Saturday September 1st and Sunday September 2nd

9:00 am thru 6:00 pm both days

Wednesday September 5thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday September 15th Conscious Kink 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday September 16th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday September 19thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

October 2012

Wednesday October 3rdAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday October 13th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday October14th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday October 17thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

November 2012

Wednesday November 1stAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Sunday November 11th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday November 14thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday November 17th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Saturday November 24thConscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30

Wednesday November 28thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

December 2012

 

Wednesday December 12thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday Decemebr 15th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday December 16th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

For a detailed information about events in Toronto please visit the links below:

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Today Finding the Light.

Yesterday was a revelation and an inspiration. I got to find a little light in what I do and offer in this world. Working with a client I was totally touched and my heart was opened when they said” This is like going on a journey with my brother, we are discovering and learning together.”

I got to look inside, see my light, see the place in me that holds my heart and know that my heart was being seen and experienced for what is was being offered as.

Pleasure, inclusion and the unity and balance of being together. Being part of the Tribe and being together on the journey was reassuring and balancing for me. This simple statement offered me inspiration. I got to see my inner light as I guided another to seeing their own.

Love and Peace

Finding the Light - Day after the Winter Solstice - Toronto 2011

 

Excitement the totally JUICY state.

Cultivating and developing excitement and the glory of anticipation is a life long pursuit with me. I revel in the joy and pleasure of all that can be savoured in a prolonged period of excitement.

YES! This is all about SEX and YES this is all about living every day. I feel so much more, life force, juice and pleasure when I can be excited. Especially when my excitement is about what is happening, and what is going to happen and what has happened. I am in a state of JOY so much more often when I am excited and reveling in what is going to take place.

I can even feel this excitement about filling in a form and submitting documentation that needs to be painstakingly put together. I sometimes need to look at the far bigger picture to get the thrill in place.

Today I will feel all of the excitement about having a day. I will revel in the glory of what is. I will smile and enjoy every flash of pink and feel all the JUICE I have. This will be my challenge and my meditation for the day.

Excitement - Creating a JUICY State - Toronto December 2011

 
 
 
For more information about Living a life full of conscious excitement visit my web page www.phillipcoupal.ca

im·ag·i·na·tion

noun

1.

the faculty of imagining, or of forming mental images or concepts of what is not actually present to the senses.
2.

the action or process of forming such images or concepts.
3.

the faculty of producing ideal creations consistent with reality, as in literature, as distinct from the power of creating illustrative or decorative imagery.
4.
the product of imagining; a conception or mental creation, often a baseless or fanciful one.
5.
ability to face and resolve difficulties; resourcefulness: a job that requires imagination.
 
Seems that at least a part of imagining is being able to bring whatever has come to mind, the imagined element, to the forefront of the senses.  I believe that simply living in imagination without any embodiment of the imagined would be too sterile and mind centered for me. I must allow my imagination to come to fruition and become reality. Not all of the time but at least some of the time.
 
I am glad that I am able allow my imagination to come to life.
 

The Rialto - Venice 2009

 
Living Joyfully… www.phillipcoupal.ca

mind·ful

adjective

attentive, aware, or careful (usually followed by of ): mindful of one’s responsibilities.

em·bod·y

verb (used with object), -bod·ied, -bod·y·ing.

1. to give a concrete form to; express, personify, or exemplify in concrete form: to embody an idea in an allegorical painting.

2. to provide with a body; incarnate; make corporeal: to embody a spirit.

3. to collect into or include in a body; organize; incorporate.

4. to embrace or comprise.

Today is weaving both worlds. That of awareness and providing a body.  To weave this magic on more than one level. To be more able to weave this on physical, mental, emotional, heartful, erotic, intuitive and spiritual levels.

This is my goal, my dream, my desire. This is my willingness and action.

Weaving - Mindful and Embodied - December 2011

 Follow me on the Ecstatic Path www.phillipcoupal.ca

Today as I transition I will have lots of time to reflect with myself about what this pretty momentous weekend has delivered to me.

There are two elements floating in my being at this moment.

The first is if you want something there is no one more important in “getting” what you want that yourself. If I want something to change I will have to change to begin, inspire, create the change that I want…

The second is how shocked I was to see how difficult it was for me to feel and be a part of… I know that for those of you who know me this is pretty obvious; however, I was challenged to find my place in a group so diverse… at the same time I come out of this knowing that I will need to lead… So if I am a part of or not I know that there are several challenges ahead for ME to BE.

Love the universe at this moment and loving my place in it… So looking forward to what is unfolding for me and those I am near…

You must ask for what you really want... DON'T go back to sleep" Rumi

More as I journey home.