Posts Tagged ‘Creating something new’

Opening

There is endless possibility in opening. Although an open state is perhaps more vulnerable there is more in the openness than in a closed state or a defended state. 

Today I will be open and allow myself to lead out of that openness. There is nothing getting me off track, I don’t need the map. I will be confident and true to my heart and to the JOY that underlies all that I do.

I will be inspired by opening into the great power of JOY.

“Far better to live your own path imperfectly than to live another’s perfectly.” -Bhagavad Gita

Open HEARTED Joy - November 16

 

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Pink Tour – What does this mean?

Today a friend challenged me to illustrate a particular point about leading and the power and passion involved in moving forward. This forward motion can be about my life but often in this moment it is really about my moving my life forward in conjunction with other aspects and elements of my community and those that are around me. I so very often do not see or experience myself as a leader when I very much am leading. Often I have no idea that i am mentoring and modelling a particular group and way of being when it sees to come naturally.

I can no longer wait for someone else to lead the way because I am already on my way. Join me on the BIG PINK TOUR BUS

The illustrative point of this analogy of the BIG PINK TOUR BUS is that the whole thing is kind of like ME driving the bus. I am no longer a passenger, I am the driver. I work for my own tour company so the tours are really my choice. Being a savvy operator I always check with those around me to see what they would like. I am actually the leader and the one moving the whole operation ahead, setting the course and direction, creating the tone.

Funny thing is I very often don’t know exactly where the bus is going but I do know that I want the trip to be fun, uplifting an unpredictable and joyful experience.

The JOURNEY is really important, the DESTINATION not so much. Dancing on the Ecstatic path… rather than forging my way through and having the path be a particular way before setting out.

My BIG PINK bus!

ZOOM-ZOOM

Driving my BIG PINK bus… Destination unknown – Ecstatic Juicy Heart Surprise! Surprise! The bus is totally diverse. The whole tour company a sexy surprise! Tour Operator Uniform — TEE HEE
 

SURPRISE! SURPRISE!
The Tour BUS is full of Diversity!
Always a package full of delight and surprise!
 
 

TOUR BUS OPERATORS UNIFORM - TEE HEE

A New Workshop being offered here in Toronto
Dancing on the Ecstatic Path for Men
Bridging the energy of Earth and Sky with the Energy of the Heart
A two-day exploration of Erotic Energy
Techniques will involve Touch, Breath and Movement
 
Toronto – Ontario – Canada
February 4th and 5th 2012
 
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Om Shanti ♥

Today I am looking for Peace and Spirit. I will take a walk outside in a short while and be in the sun and glow of the radiant light.

Om Shanti ♥

November 7 - The Bridge of Sighs

The Bridge of Sighs - Venice Decemebr 2006

 

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Pleasure and Passion are to me like a delicious cocktail combination.

Pleasure increases with me when I am passionate. Passion increases in me when I am in a state of pleasure. Passionate is full-bodied and all in, no limits. Pleasure is flowing and energetic, no blockages and plenty of juice.

There is a lovely balance in me when pleasure and passion are at play. I imagine that this is like yin and yang, like when my tantra teacher speaks of balance in masculine and feminine. What seems to me to happen is that pleasure and passion work with and through each other. The passion liquefies and bubbles the pleasure and the pleasure solidifies and firms the passion. This all seems to play out in a sexy and delightful way in me. I like the way that I feel when the two are playing in me.

Pleasure and Passion, living in a delicious and blissful state.

Today I will allow for the flow of pleasure and the stability of passion, all within me as I weave my way through the day and night.

 

Pleasure and Passion – Water and Stone – Juicy Heart

Niagra Gorge Easton to Toronto – October 2011

 

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AH HA Sexy Passion – Passion is a playmate.

I seem not to be able to rid myself of passion. Passion follows me and is in me wherever I go. Passion moves through my work, my play and my day to day life, as well as my dreams. Living passionately and full-out is not natural to me. I only came to expressing passion and being passionate after finding permission inside of myself.

When you’re at peace with yourself and you love your self, it’s virtually impossible for you to do things to yourself that are destructive.
When you get enough inner peace and feel really positive about yourself, it’s almost impossible for you to be controlled or manipulated by anyone else.
the more you extend kindness to yourself the more it will become your natural response to others
A secret of abundance is to stop focussing on what you do not have and shift your consciousness to an appreciation for all that you do have
No limit people are so in charge that they can trust their instincts, be childlike, be creative and do anything that makes sense to them.

No limit people are so in charge that they can trust their instincts, be childlike, be creative and do anything that makes sense to them.

Wayne Dyer

The idea of living in passion is relatively new to me as a 55 year old man. A few years ago my passion scared me, I did not know how to live with this part of me that seemed so out of control, so huge, so fierce. Today I watch for the fierceness and enjoy the eruption as passion plays out of me.  Today I thrive on the richness and the fulness of expression that passion allows for me.

Today I will surf in the flood of creativity that my passion brings and I will live without limiting that abundance of fresh, new and recurring old. Today I will let the passion flow, erupt, shoot and drizzle.

Today I will be full and playful and enjoy the freedom I feel without limits, living in joyful, blissful passion.

AH! HA! - The Light COMES ON! - Venice 2010

 

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Seeking a vibration that is in sync with the world around me.

I notice today that I am vibrating at a really high frequency. This high frequency is about play and action and motion and dancing. I seem to be out of sync with a world that is dark and gloomy, rainy and foggy. I am breathing to sync the two. I know that if I breath and become more aware of the world around me the sync will actually happen.

Today I will breath deeply and align with the reality of the world around me.

Vibration ~~~~~~~~

Choice today is a Powerful Place to be!

I am on my way home after a weekend of service. I had the honour to serve for a workshop called Power Surrender and Intimacy. I had a joy filled time. I was surprised to find that I could change my beliefs, change my outlook and change my experience. It was very simple, all I needed to do was dive into the place in myself where I could make a choice. Sometimes it was very simple and sometimes it was immensely complex. The simplicity of choosing to choose became more and more clear as the weekend went by.

Today I will be in the absolute fluidity of being able and willing to CHOOSE!

Choice Point - October 24 2011

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Practicing being FLUID

Today I will practice and experiment with being fluid. I am working to be more spontaneous, more flexible, more easy-going.

The focus is on being more…. more me first! More acknowledging and authentic with my desire,my curiosity and my sense of fun. The knowledge that springs from this is to be less attached.Less attached to any outcome, judgement or rigidity.

Becoming fluid and flowing… ❤ Love the Juicy Heart

Fluid and BEing the Cock of the WALK - London October 2011

 

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Today I will stimulate delight and bliss.

Another gathering of men learning to touch, men seeking the wisdom of their body. I am smiling at the thought.

Today will be filled with Joy as we wander onto the Ecstatic Path. This is the work of men understanding and playing in their unfathomable desire. When men access the loving places that reside in them without shame the result is astounding and surprising.

Living on the Ecstatic Path and sharing the delight of discovery with like-minded men.  Honour the Divine within and welcoming all that shows up.

Namaste ❤

Greetings ~ Salutations ~ Honouring the Divine Within You

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Holding the gate open.

Ushering in another seeker, holding the gate open as another man moves out  and away from shame. I hope his life can be blessed with JOY. Today I had the singular pleasure of living and being in an Exquisite Connection.

Thanks Sister Merry Peter for the reminder that everything is a reflection. All that comes before me is very much a reflection or myself.  Tonight I had the treat of seeing and meeting some of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. The work of these men as Sisters is an inspiration and a delightful blessing to the world.

I am happy and glad in this moment. Joyful to be brazen. Ecstatic to be free.

The Fluid State of the Ecstatic Path ~ Piazza Navonna 2009

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