Which way to spin?
Doing administration and a lot of design in preparation for the Swim Club and their new website.
I think I will spin PINK!
Today I am UnWRAPPED
I usually carefully put myself together, wrapping myself up, making certain non of the loose ends are showing. There seems to be no wrapping today. I am full of all of my passions and full of all of my fears and full of all of the joys of my life.
I am particularly aware of how raw I feel when I hear, inconsistencies and unbalanced elements. Hearing imbalances, untruths, lies has me feel a little raw today. The world can be cruel and unkind. I will need to be extra generous with my own self care.
I will be sweet and kind and generous and finally extraordinarily gracious with myself in order to compensate for the: gas lighting, crazy making, unbalanced emotional response that takes place in me as I hear lies or untruths.
The sweetness and graciousness will allow me to glow. The glow will let me be safe and know that it is alright to be UnWRAPPED.
More about the Juicy Heart blog and about Counselling and Coaching Gay Men and Male Couples www.phillipcoupal.ca
I want a little sugar
in my bowl
I want a little sweetness
down in my soul
I could stand some lovin’
MMMMMMM YUM!
Nudge…
Sometimes all I really want is a small gentle nudge. Most times my mind and my being gives me a huge aggressive and demanding push. I never respond to pushing and shoving in a nice way. Points me to retraining myself to be move of what I actually want and a lot less of what I do not want.
Today I will be gentle and take it easy. I will listen to the truth of what my heart wants.
Oh! The places you’ll go…
Your mountain is waiting so get on your way.
Pretty much everything is not as it seems. There are always layers and layers under and over and in and out.
Today I will look through the reflection and see what is under the surface. Today I will look further inside and outside to see what is.
Perhaps it is nothing… – ♥ –
Perhaps it is everything… – ♥ –
For more about what is … www.phillipcoupal.ca
Just a LITTLE!
Just a LITTLE is all it takes to create a sense of motion and action. Just a little proaction, that is really all it takes to start the ball in motion. Just a LITTLE is all it can take to have me feel much better and more accomplished.
Yesterday I thought that I would just take care of a small job and viola there it is a whole job completed. Yes!, I had to rid my mind of all of the judgements. Yes!, I had to concentrate on just the small little piece. Yes!, I had to tell myself “this is a work in progress.” Yes!, I had to keep moving and pushing ahead.
Now the job is done and I feel inspired to take on another job. I wonder where this will lead?
Today I will feel and be successful and proactive at getting the job done!
For more about Coaching and Counselling contact me at www.phillipcoupal.ca
Published a new version of my website today.
Feels so good especially when it all works.
Phillip Coupal Counsellor + Coach + Bodyworker
The Calendar was a treat to do… and I like the Workshop Links Page
YES!
Expanding Erotic Awareness and creating Education thru Experimentation in Eroticism and Sex.
Each month I facilitate a Touch Exchange for men. This is a small group and limited to 8 to 10 participants.
In addition to the monthly Touch Exchange I facilitate several workshops per year that focus on different topics which can include Breath Work, Conscious Self Pleasure, the principles and practice of Taoist Erotic Massage. I call the experiential learning sessions Exquisite Connections.
Every other week there are evenig sessions. This series is called Erotic Education
New for 2012 is a 2 day weekend series titled:
Dancing on the Ecstatic Path sessions that take place in an informal setting. Client oriented these sessions explore awareness of the body and are designed to foster learning about touch, eroticism and sexuality.
There are also a series of full day events designed to explore Conscious Kink
As the Toronto Coordinator for the BES I am responsible for the production and presentation of up to 5 weekend workshops per year.
Please see below for details, dates and information
Men Touching Men Erotic Exploration Events in Toronto
January 2012
Wednesday January 4th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Saturday January 14th – Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30
Sunday January 15th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
Wednesday January 18th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Saturday January 21st – Conscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30
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February 2012
Wednesday February 1st – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
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Weekend Event with William McMeniman
Dancing on the Ecstatic Path
Saturday February 4th and Sunday February 5th
9:00 am thru 6:00 pm both days
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Wednesday February 15th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Sunday February 19th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
Monday February 20th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30
Saturday February 18th – Conscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30
Wednesday February 29th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
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March 2012
Saturday March 10th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30Sunday
Wednesday March 14th – Adult Education6:30 to 9:30
Sunday March 18th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
Wednesday March 28th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
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April 2012
Wednesday April 11th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Saturday April 14th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30
Sunday April 15th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
Wednesday April 25th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Saturday April 28th – Conscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30
Sunday April 29th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30
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May 2012
Wednesday May 9th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
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Wednesday May 16th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Wednesday May 23rd – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Sunday May26th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30
Sunday May 27th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
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June 2012
Wednesday June 6th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
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Sunday June 17th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
Wednesday June 20th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Saturday June 23rd – Conscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30
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July 2012
Wednesday July 4th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
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Wednesday July 18th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Sunday July 22nd – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
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August 2012
Wednesday August 8th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Saturday August 18th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30
Sunday August 19th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
Wednesday August 23rd – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
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September 2012
Weekend Event
Dancing on the Ecstatic Path
Saturday September 1st and Sunday September 2nd
9:00 am thru 6:00 pm both days
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Wednesday September 5th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Saturday September 15th Conscious Kink 9:30 thru 6:30
Sunday September 16th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
Wednesday September 19th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
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October 2012
Wednesday October 3rd – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Saturday October 13th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30
Sunday October14th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
Wednesday October 17th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
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November 2012
Wednesday November 1st – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Sunday November 11th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
Wednesday November 14th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Saturday November 17th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30
Saturday November 24th – Conscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30
Wednesday November 28th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
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December 2012
Wednesday December 12th – Adult Education 6:30 to 9:30
Saturday Decemebr 15th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30
Sunday December 16th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30
For a detailed information about events in Toronto please visit the links below:
I hope to add little bits and pieces that I find from here and there…
From John Ballew how a little can accomplish a lot. Happy New Year! PLease make sure to take it easy on all those resolutions.
From Colossal – Obliteration Room What can happen when there is a consistent and constant degree of change.
Today fresh and new.
Starting from yesterday where I had to take a step I did not want to take. I wonder what will come today and which step I will take… I love this poem it is so on about looking inside to begin.
From David Whyte
Start close in,
don’t take the second step
or the third,
start with the first
thing
close in,
the step
you don’t want to take.
Start with
the ground
you know,
the pale ground
beneath your feet,
your own
way of starting
the conversation.
Start with your own
question,
give up on other
people’s questions,
don’t let them
smother something
simple.
To find
another’s voice,
follow
your own voice,
wait until
that voice
becomes a
private ear
listening
to another.
Start right now
take a small step
you can call your own
don’t follow
someone else’s
heroics, be humble
and focused,
start close in,
don’t mistake
that other
for your own.
Start close in,
don’t take
the second step
or the third,
start with the first
thing
close in,
the step
you don’t want to take