Archive for January, 2012

Nudge…

Sometimes all I really want is a small gentle nudge. Most times my mind and my being gives me a huge aggressive and demanding push. I never respond to pushing and shoving in a nice way. Points me to retraining myself to be move of what I actually want and a lot less of what I do not want.

Today I will be gentle and take it easy. I will listen to the truth of  what my heart wants.

Insight - Montreal 2012

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Oh! The places you’ll go…

Your mountain is waiting so get on your way.

Pretty much everything is not as it seems. There are always layers and layers under and over and in and out.

Today I will look through the reflection and see what is under the surface. Today I will look further inside and outside to see what is.

Perhaps it is nothing… – ♥ –

Perhaps it is everything… – ♥ –

Not as IT SEEMS – Indiana June 2009

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Just a LITTLE!

Just a LITTLE is all it takes to create a sense of motion and action. Just a little proaction, that is really all it takes to start the ball in motion. Just a LITTLE is all it can take to have me feel much better and more accomplished.

Yesterday I thought that I would just take care of a small job and viola there it is a whole job completed. Yes!, I had to rid my mind of all of the judgements. Yes!, I had to concentrate on just the small little piece. Yes!, I had to tell myself “this is a work in progress.”  Yes!, I had to keep moving and pushing ahead.

Now the job is done and I feel inspired to take on another job. I wonder where this will lead?

Today I will feel and be successful and proactive at getting the job done!

Just A LITTLE – Venice – January 2012

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Doing! – ♥ – Juicy Heart

Posted: January 5, 2012 in Random

Published a new version of my website today.

Feels so good especially when it all works.

Phillip Coupal Counsellor + Coach + Bodyworker

The Calendar was a treat to do… and I like the Workshop Links Page

YES!

 

 See the current listings for all Experiential Embodied Erotic Explorations 

Expanding Erotic Awareness and creating Education thru Experimentation in Eroticism and Sex.

Each month I facilitate a Touch Exchange for men. This is a small group and limited to 8 to 10 participants.

In addition to the monthly Touch Exchange I facilitate several workshops per year that focus on different topics which can include Breath Work, Conscious Self Pleasure, the principles and practice of Taoist Erotic Massage. I call the experiential learning sessions Exquisite Connections.

Every other week there are evenig sessions. This series is called Erotic Education

New for 2012 is a 2 day weekend series titled:

Dancing on the Ecstatic Path sessions that take place in an informal setting. Client oriented these sessions explore awareness of the body and are designed to foster learning about touch, eroticism and sexuality.

There are also a series of full day events designed to explore Conscious Kink

As the Toronto Coordinator for the BES I am responsible for the production and presentation of up to 5 weekend workshops per year.

Please see below for details, dates and information

Calendar of Events 2012

Men Touching Men Erotic Exploration Events in Toronto

Events 2012

January 2012

Wednesday January 4thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday January 14th – Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday January 15th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday January 18thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday January 21stConscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30

February 2012

Wednesday February 1stAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Weekend Event with William McMeniman

Dancing on the Ecstatic Path

Saturday February 4th and Sunday February 5th

9:00 am thru 6:00 pm both days

Wednesday February 15thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Sunday February 19th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Monday February 20th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Saturday February 18thConscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30

Wednesday February 29thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

March 2012

Saturday March 10th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30Sunday

Wednesday March 14thAdult Education6:30 to 9:30

Sunday March 18th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday March 28thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

April 2012

Wednesday April 11thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday April 14th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday April 15th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday April 25thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday April 28thConscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30

Sunday April 29th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

May 2012

Wednesday May 9thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

Wednesday May 16thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Wednesday May 23rdAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Sunday May26th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday May 27th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

June 2012

Wednesday June 6thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

Sunday June 17th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday June 20thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday June 23rdConscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30

July 2012

Wednesday July 4thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

Wednesday July 18thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Sunday July 22nd – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

August 2012

Wednesday August 8thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday August 18th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday August 19th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday August 23rdAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

September 2012

Weekend Event

Dancing on the Ecstatic Path

Saturday September 1st and Sunday September 2nd

9:00 am thru 6:00 pm both days

Wednesday September 5thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday September 15th Conscious Kink 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday September 16th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday September 19thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

October 2012

Wednesday October 3rdAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday October 13th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday October14th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday October 17thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

November 2012

Wednesday November 1stAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Sunday November 11th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

Wednesday November 14thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday November 17th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Saturday November 24thConscious Kink 9:30 to 6:30

Wednesday November 28thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

 

December 2012

 

Wednesday December 12thAdult Education 6:30 to 9:30

Saturday Decemebr 15th Exquisite Connections 9:30 thru 6:30

Sunday December 16th – Massage Exchange 12:30 thru 6:30

For a detailed information about events in Toronto please visit the links below:

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Scoops Jan 4 2012 – Juicy Heart

Posted: January 4, 2012 in Random

I hope to add little bits and pieces that I find from here and there…

From John Ballew how a little can accomplish a lot. Happy New Year! PLease make sure to take it easy on all those resolutions.

From Colossal – Obliteration Room What can happen when there is a consistent and constant degree of change.

Heart

Today fresh and new. 

Starting from yesterday where I had to take a step I did not want to take. I wonder what will come today and which step I will take…  I love this poem it is so on about looking inside to begin.

From David Whyte

START CLOSE IN

Start close in,
don’t take the second step
or the third,
start with the first
thing
close in,
the step
you don’t want to take.

Start with
the ground
you know,
the pale ground
beneath your feet,
your own
way of starting
the conversation.

Start with your own
question,
give up on other
people’s questions,
don’t let them
smother something
simple.

To find
another’s voice,
follow
your own voice,
wait until
that voice
becomes a
private ear
listening
to another.

Start right now
take a small step
you can call your own
don’t follow
someone else’s
heroics, be humble
and focused,
start close in,
don’t mistake
that other
for your own.

Start close in,
don’t take
the second step
or the third,
start with the first
thing
close in,
the step
you don’t want to take

http://www.davidwhyte.com/

Start Close In - Indiana Highway June 2009

 

Yesterday was about my different sides and how many of them are dual. Today is certainly about finding comfort in that duality.

Being barraged by both sides of a situation or problem can be very overwhelming.

For me there is a great deal of comfort in breaking everything down, being experimental and proceeding. I do take a lot of comfort in moving into action. There is very often success for me in the taking action. So rather than throw my hands in the air and become a victim of whatever is happening around me, I will break the problem down into manageable bits, and move ahead into action. There is always a result to this and I know that I am totally capable of dealing with the result whatever it may be.

Duality - January 3 2012 Phillip Coupal Juicy Heart

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I Turn Around and There I am
Wednesday, July 8, 2009 and January 2, 2012
 
“Last but not least I am human,
with all of my dualities.
I am a puritan and a slut.
I am a man and a boy.
I am male and female.
I am leather and lace.
I am dizzy and grounded.
I am hard and soft.
I am dry and wet.
I am full of endless surprise and
I am most often blissfully energetic and
brazenly passionate.
Please take a breath with me!”
 
 
 
 
My Heart -September 2011