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Today…

Grateful that BEAUTY exists and that I am able to see and experience BEAUTY.

 

Gratitude Day 2 at the Awaken Studio Toronto www.awakenstudiotoronto.com

Gratitude Day 2 at the Awaken Studio Toronto
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Although it seems that there is sadness in so many parts of the world.

My search for BEAUTY helps me in my struggle against depression. Actively seeking out BEAUTY helps to keep me alive.

“Walk as if you are kissing the Earth with your feet.” ~ Thích Nhất Hạnh

Gratitude Day 1 at the Awaken Studio Toronto www.awakenstudiotoronto.com

Gratitude Day 1 at the Awaken Studio Toronto
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  • Beginning and sharing a journey into gratitude
  • Inspired by the Super Moon of last night
  • Inspired by the world around me
  • Join me in offering gratitude
  • 365 days of gratitude and seeing what this will bring in the journey

Monday August 11 – Day 1

 

Naked Yoga for Men at the Awaken Studio Toronto

Tuesday July 29, 2014 8:00pm to 9:30pm with Gregory Saliba

We will resume Tuesday September 16, 2014.

Tonight, the 29th of July marks the end of  four cycles of this Yoga series. Grateful for all of the men who have come out to share their practice. Inspired by the teachers Andy Sinclair and Gregory Saliba. Join us in September as we start again. You are welcome to join in for the ten week series or you are welcome to drop in as you are able. All Men are welcome.

Naked Yoga for Men Toronto Current Schedule http://www.phillipcoupal.ca/Naked-Yoga-for-men-Awaken-Studio-Toronto All Men are Welcome

Naked Yoga for Men Toronto Current Schedule http://www.phillipcoupal.ca/Naked-Yoga-for-men-Awaken-Studio-Toronto All Men are Welcome

 

Awaken Studio Toronto Naked Yoga for Men Tuesday 8:00 pm www.phillipcoupal.ca

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“If a man be gracious and courteous to strangers, it shows he is a citizen of the world, and that his heart is no island cut off from other lands, but a continent that joins to them.” ~ Francis Bacon

Graciousness at the Awaken Studio Toronto www.phillipcoupal.ca

Graciousness at the Awaken Studio Toronto http://www.phillipcoupal.ca

Fulfilling this path to graciousness everyday in the events, work and play that take place at the Awaken Studio.

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Ecstatic Path
Opening Erotic Awareness
Experiential Embodied Erotic Exploration

a weekend experience 
Share a time of delight and information.
Pursue a pleasurable opening to heightened erotic states.
Follow the channels of the body into the mystery of spirit within 
a group of men willing to explore together: 
sharing erotic touch, emotional connection and
full-bodied awareness. 

October 31 to November 2, 2014 Join William McMeniman and Phillip Coupal as they lead a group of lovers and erotic explorers into heightened states of erotic awareness.

Information about Weekend Workshops

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Ecstatic Path Weekend Workshop for Men Erotic and Sex Education at the Awaken Studio Toronto www.phillipcoupal.ca

Ecstatic Path Weekend Workshop for Men Erotic and Sex Education at the Awaken Studio Toronto http://www.phillipcoupal.ca

“The Hope Speech,” Harvey Milk, March 10th, 1978
My name is Harvey Milk and I’m here to recruit you.
I’ve been saying this one for years. It’s a political joke. I can’t help it–I’ve got to tell it. I’ve never been able to
talk to this many political people before, so if I tell you nothing else you may be able to go home laughing a
bit.
This ocean liner was going across the ocean and it sank. And there was one little piece of wood floating and
three people swam to it and they realized only one person could hold on to it. So they had a little debate
about which was the person. It so happened that the three people were the Pope, the President, and Mayor
Daley. The Pope said he was titular head of one of the greatest religions of the world and he was spiritual
adviser to many, many millions and he went on and pontificated and they thought it was a good argument.
Then the President said he was leader of the largest and most powerful nation of the world. What takes
place in this country affects the whole world and they thought that was a good argument. And Mayor Daley
said he was mayor of the backbone of the United States and what took place in Chicago affected the world,
and what took place in the archdiocese of Chicago affected Catholicism. And they thought that was a good
argument. So they did it the democratic way and voted. And Daley won, seven to two.
About six months ago, Anita Bryant in her speaking to God said that the drought in California was because of
the gay people. On November 9, the day after I got elected, it started to rain. On the day I got sworn in, we
walked to City Hall and it was kinda nice, and as soon as I said the word “I do,” it started to rain again. It’s
been raining since then and the people of San Francisco figure the only way to stop it is to do a recall
petition. That’s the local joke.
So much for that. Why are we here? Why are gay people here? And what’s happening? What’s happening to
me is the antithesis of what you read about in the papers and what you hear about on the radio. You hear
about and read about this movement to the right. That we must band together and fight back this
movement to the right. And I’m here to go ahead and say that what you hear and read is what they want
you to think because it’s not happening. The major media in this country has talked about the movement to
the right so the legislators think that there is indeed a movement to the right and that the Congress and the
legislators and the city councils will start to move to the right the way the major media want them. So they
keep on talking about this move to the right.
So let’s look at 1977 and see if there was indeed a move to the right. In 1977, gay people had their rights
taken away from them in Miami. But you must remember that in the week before Miami and the week after
that, the word homosexual or gay appeared in every single newspaper in this nation in articles both pro and
con. In every radio station, in every TV station and every household. For the first time in the history of the
world, everybody was talking about it, good or bad. Unless you have dialogue, unless you open the walls of
dialogue, you can never reach to change people’s opinion. In those two weeks, more good and bad, but
more about the word homosexual and gay was written than probably in the history of mankind. Once you
have dialogue starting, you know you can break down prejudice. In 1977 we saw a dialogue start. In 1977,
we saw a gay person elected in San Francisco. In 1977 we saw the state of Mississippi decriminalize
marijuana. In 1977, we saw the convention of conventions in Houston. And I want to know where the
movement to the right is happening.

What that is is a record of what happened last year. What we must do is make sure that 1978 continues the
movement that is really happening that the media don’t want you to know about. That is the movement to
the left. It’s up to CDC to put the pressures on Sacramento–but to break down the walls and the barriers so
the movement to the left continues and progress continues in the nation. We have before us coming up
several issues we must speak out on. Probably the most important issue outside the Briggs–which we will
come to–but we do know what will take place this June. We know there’s an issue on the ballot called
Jarvis-Gann. We hear the taxpayers talk about it on both sides. But what you don’t hear is that it’s probably
the most racist issue on the ballot in a long time. In the city and county of San Francisco, if it passes and we
indeed have to lay off people, who will they be? The last in, and the first in, and who are the last in but the
minorities? Jarvis-Gann is a racist issue. We must address that issue. We must not talk away from it. We
must not allow them to talk about the money it’s going to save, because look at who’s going to save the
money and who’s going to get hurt.
We also have another issue that we’ve started in some of the north counties and I hope in some of the south
counties it continues. In San Francisco elections we’re asking–at least we hope to ask– that the U.S.
government put pressure on the closing of the South African consulate. That must happen. There is a major
difference between an embassy in Washington which is a diplomatic bureau and a consulate in major cities.
A consulate is there for one reason only — to promote business, economic gains, tourism, investment. And
every time you have business going to South Africa, you’re promoting a regime that’s offensive.
In the city of San Francisco, if everyone of 51 percent of that city were to go to South Africa, they would be
treated as second-class citizens. That is an offense to the people of San Francisco and I hope all my
colleagues up there will take every step we can to close down that consulate and hope that people in other
parts of the state follow us in that lead. The battles must be started some place and CDC is the greatest
place to start the battles. I know we are pressed for time so I’m going to cover just one more little point.
That is to understand why it is important that gay people run for office and that gay people get elected. I
know there are many people in this room who are running for central committee who are gay. I encourage
you. There’s a major reason why. If my non-gay friends and supporters in this room understand it, they’ll
probably understand why I’ve run so often before I finally made it. Y’see right now, there’s a controversy
going on in this convention about the gay governor. Is he speaking out enough? Is he strong enough for gay
rights? And there is controversy and for us to say it is not would be foolish. Some people are satisfied and
some people are not.
You see there is am major difference–and it remains a vital difference–between a friend and a gay person, a
friend in office and a gay person in office. Gay people have been slandered nationwide. We’ve been tarred
and we’ve been brushed with the picture of pornography. In Dade County, we were accused of child
molestation. It’s not enough anymore just to have friends represent us. No matter how good that friend may
be.
The black community made up its mind to that a long time ago. That the myths against blacks can only be
dispelled by electing black leaders, so the black community could be judged by the leaders and not by the
myths or black criminals. The Spanish community must not be judged by Latin criminals or myths. The Asian
community must not be judged by Asian criminals or myths. The Italian community must not be judged by
the mafia, myths. And the time has come when the gay community must not be judged by our criminals and
myths.
Like every other group, we must be judged by our leaders and by those who are themselves gay, those who
are visible. For invisible, we remain in limbo–a myth, a person with no parents, no brothers, no sisters, no
friends who are straight, no important positions in employment. A tenth of the nation supposedly composed
of stereotypes and would-be seducers of children–and no offense meant to the stereotypes. But today, the
black community is not judged by its friends, but by its black legislators and leaders. And we must give
people the chance to judge us by our leaders and legislators. A gay person in office can set a tone, con
command respect not only from the larger community, but from the young people in our own community
who need both examples and hope.

The first gay people we elect must be strong. They must not be content to sit in the back of the bus. They
must not be content to accept pablum. They must be above wheeling and dealing. They must be–for the
good of all of us–independent, unbought. The anger and the frustrations that some of us feel is because we
are misunderstood, and friends can’t feel the anger and frustration. They can sense it in us, but they can’t
feel it. Because a friend has never gone through what is known as coming out. I will never forget what it was
like coming out and having nobody to look up toward. I remember the lack of hope–and our friends can’t
fulfill it.
I can’t forget the looks on faces of people who’ve lost hope. Be they gay, be they seniors, be they blacks
looking for an almost-impossible job, be they Latins trying to explain their problems and aspirations in a
tongue that’s foreign to them. I personally will never forget that people are more important than buildings. I
use the word “I” because I’m proud. I stand here tonight in front of my gay sisters, brothers and friends
because I’m proud of you. I think it’s time that we have many legislators who are gay and proud of that fact
and do not have to remain in the closet. I think that a gay person, up-front, will not walk away from a
responsibility and be afraid of being tossed out of office. After Dade County, I walked among the angry and
the frustrated night after night and I looked at their faces. And in San Francisco, three days before Gay Pride
Day, a person was killed just because he was gay. And that night, I walked among the sad and the frustrated
at City Hall in San Francisco and later that night as they lit candles on Castro Street and stood in silence,
reaching out for some symbolic thing that would give them hope. These were strong people, whose faces I
knew from the shop, the streets, meetings and people who I never saw before but I knew. They were strong,
but even they needed hope.
And the young gay people in the Altoona, Pennsylvanias and the Richmond, Minnesotas who are coming out
and hear Anita Bryant on television and her story. The only thing they have to look forward to is hope. And
you have to give them hope. Hope for a better world, hope for a better tomorrow, hope for a better place to
come to if the pressures at home are too great. Hope that all will be all right. Without hope, not only gays,
but the blacks, the seniors, the handicapped, the us’es, the us’es will give up. And if you help elect to the
central committee and other offices, more gay people, that gives a green light to all who feel
disenfranchised, a green light to move forward. It means hope to a nation that has given up, because if a gay
person makes it, the doors are open to everyone.
So if there is a message I have to give, it is that I’ve found one overriding thing about my personal election,
it’s the fact that if a gay person can be elected, it’s a green light. And you and you and you, you have to give
people hope. Thank you very much.

 

 

If you don’t have tall poppies, you only have weeds. 

~  Lindsay Fox

 

Do you let yourself stand out from the crowd?

 

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Phillip Coupal Counselling Coaching Bodywork at Awaken Studio Toronto http://www.phillipcoupal.ca

 

Today inspired by:

my friend Germen and his beautiful land on the Sunshine Coast – The Landing Place.

my friend Dave who lead me through a wonderful conversation and introduced me to the concept of “Tall Poppies”

my friend Paul who inspires me everyday

 

When will you ever be over that… ?

Early last December I was out with a friend.  We were in the Gay Village here in Toronto, having a coffee in the late afternoon. We got to talking about relationship and that brought me to speaking about some of what goes on in me and passes through me when I let myself dwell in the pain of rejection and heart ache that I am able to feel in the dissolution of a relationship.

As our conversation developed, I was a bit surprised as I spoke, that the friend that I was with, asked rather abruptly… “When will you ever be over that? … What will it take for you to move on?… It has been so long will you ever be over this?…”

The particular relationship, that I will speak of here, is not what one might expect. This is not about the severing of a relationship between two human beings but the dissolution of the relationship between myself, a human being, and a corporation.

These questions about the way I process my pain and grief  around my separation, left me to wonder and ponder what was going on in me that I could not get over what had happened. This left me to analyze what really did happen and why I should feel so hurt by a business, a corporation.

First, I drew little distinction between the corporation and the human beings that were steering the ship, driving the organization. In my experience, the voices on the phone, the fingers typing the emails were human and not corporate.

Second, I had given, over several years, a lot of my energy, passion, skill and devotion to this company.  I had given my human LIFE force to this corporate organization. Again it never felt like I was involved with a company but with a group of people. I felt I was involved with other human beings. I felt that all was friendly and that I could be vulnerable and continue to operate in my human way, rather than in the defenses of a hard-shelled corporate and very inhumane manner.

Last, I look at what really happened. All of it was business and I simply could not see that the humans I was dealing with could disengage from their money driven pursuit to get to a heart driven pursuit. The humans and the corporate zombies could not be separated. My defenses as a human were compromised and I simply had to close up and wall myself off from the corporate onslaught.

In the face of the dissolution of our once tender relationship, I had to defend myself in the most silent ways. I was threatened, by the other – my former partner, with all of the corporate defenses. These including law suits, the forfeiture of my daily income and finally the threat of unending bullying and threatening if I ever spoke or wrote of the experience that I had with this small and ultimately very predatory and dangerous corporation.

This is the crux of the whole experience for me. That these PEOPLE, fellow HUMAN BEINGS, could not act like the human beings that they looked like; however, instead stayed in their corporate, financial and money driven pursuit. This organization that spoke of spirit, this organization that spoke of heart, this organization that spoke of human integrity and human healing was ultimately unable to operate from a heart centered model and shifted to, what was for me, a rather vicious and hurtful, greedy corporate model.

I wonder to this day what happened to the humans that were involved in the operations of this business. These humans had touched me, showed themselves to me in truly human forms. Part of the hurt and the great sense of fracture in this very painful separation is that the humans disappeared and were replaced by vacuous and dangerous zombie like human forms that were simply robots of American Corporate culture.

So, back to the question, “when will I be over this”?  I don’t think I ever will.

The experience, this rather ugly corporate divorce, has ingrained in me a wariness and deep felt skepticism of corporate culture. The experience has taught me that indeed, corporations are NOT human. This wariness and skepticism has me super vigilant as I work to operate in a heart centered world rather than in a corporate and money centered world.

Everyday this scar that is in me, poses to me the question and offers me the challenge… “Can you live your HUMAN life, and carry on your HUMAN business in life, from a HEART centered model?”

I have determined in my musings and in my stumbling through life that it is my greatest pleasure and my wildest dream to live my life fully from my heart. It is my profound desire to treat each and every being that I encounter in the most humane, kindly, compassionate and loving way that is within me.  -♥-

Here I am everyday bringing forward, my very human SWEET JUICY HEART.

BE well! and Blessed BE! Glad to have a FAERIE name that fits.

SWEET JUICY HEART - www.phillipcoupal.ca

SWEET JUICY HEART – http://www.phillipcoupal.ca

 

Men Touching Men – Intimate Exploration with full body touch.

Join in Groups of men touching men. Gather in a safe, honouring and uplifting environment.

Celebrate your Erotic and Sensual Self.

January to May 2014 Join in with a group of explorers creating intimacy, feelings of connectedness and well being.

Erotic Touch with Taoist Massage on the 3rd Sunday of the month.

  • January 19
  • February 16
  • March 16
  • April 20

Sensual Touch with Tantric Exploration on the 4th Sunday of the month.

  • January 26
  • February 23
  • March 23
  • April 27

More about these events on the website at: Men 4 Men – Afternoon Touch Exchange

Intimate Erotic Touch Exchange for Men - Toronto

Intimate Erotic Touch Exchange for Men – Toronto

Information – Questions – Registration contact Phillip at phillip@phillipcoupal.ca

Not up for touch and want to explore your queer sides…
Join the Queer Heart Talking Circle meeting at the Awaken Studio every second Sunday of each month.

  • January 12
  • February 9
  • March 9
  • April 13
Queer Heart Talking Circle - Awaken Studio - Toronto MORE? phillip@phillipcoupal.ca

Queer Heart Talking Circle – Awaken Studio – Toronto MORE? phillip@phillipcoupal.ca

Not up for touch or talk and want to be in the presence of men

Join in Naked Yoga for Men meeting 8:00 pm Tuesday and Thursday evenings at the Awaken Studio

  • Tuesday Evening Check for availability
  • Thursday Evening Check for availability
Naked Yoga for Men at the Awaken Studio Toronto www.phillipcoupal.ca Men Touching Men

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Namaste – Blessed BE

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Next event May 12th 1:00 to 6:00 at the Awaken Studio

Men 4 Men Touch Exchange

Men learn to give and receive erotic and sensual touch in a healthy, safe,supportive,  uplifting and honouring environment

  • Explore your erotic, sexual and sensual self,
  • Explore in an environment  that supports, encourages and assists emotional and erotic journeys that promote holistic healing,
  • Explore within a group of heartfelt and courageous men, feel less isolated and create more connections within a supportive community
  • Explore the connection between erotic expression and a sense of well-being and wholeness

This event welcomes all men no matter their sexual identity or orientation. Men of all levels of experience and knowledge are welcome, together we are able to learn from and with each other.

This event welcomes all who can open themselves to a sense of adventure and exploration in the realm of their body, on a physical level as well as on an erotic and sexual level.

If you would like further information please make certain to contact Phillip Coupal at phillip@phillipcoupal.ca

If you would like complete information or to register for the event please visit Men 4 Men Touch Exchange – Toronto

Visit the website at http://www.phillipcoupal.ca

Intimate Erotic Touch Exchange for Men - Toronto

Intimate Erotic Touch Exchange for Men – Toronto

Awaken Studio www.phillipcoupal.ca Conscious Expression of Erotic and Life Force Energies Events and Programs for Men who LOVE Men and Men who have SEX with Men

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Conscious Expression of Erotic and Life Force Energies
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